Although people consider it to be mandatory for everyone to get married. It’s not mandatory for every wedding to be successful. Some couples take time to settle in but some just can’t. Some couples stay together for ages and even have grandkids and then get divorced.
Here is a list of things that you should not tolerate, no matter what!
Only a man who cannot provide things on his own would ask for such a thing!
A marriage without communication is equal to a sour seedless fruit
3) Physical abuse
The moment he raises his hand on you, just know it’s over. He is not your father neither does a man who really loves you would hurt you!
4) Domestic violence
This is a continuation of the 3rd point. A woman leaves her house to stay with you. She doesn’t whine like a man does when he has to live away from his mother. If she is strong enough to handle this. Know that the second she decides to punch you back, you will be no more.
5) Lack of respect and trust
Before you expect other men to respect your sisters and mother. It’s time you start respecting the women inside your house. And girls know that it’s just not about how he treats you!
Boys we tell you the same
Like we say, “Too much of anything is good for nothing”!
Drinking and smoking are quite common today. But if what you do when you are high harms other’s it’s completely unacceptable. We need to stop making an excuse that “my partner was high”.
7) Women not being able to conceive
Daaamn the issues about not having a child! When a man is not capable enough to have kids it’s not at all a problem. But when a woman can’t, the man should divorce her.
The contradiction you see!
If all they consider you are a machine to give birth, dude walk away!
8) Due to giving birth to only girl child
Let’s say even if she is able to conceive. We still can’t figure out the obsession of having a boy baby.
She is not a manufacturing factory. You can’t choose the gender and girl children are not the defective products!
Bro, it applies to you too. Don’t waste your energy on women like this!
Following the previous points, say your partner has overcome both. You still can’t fake an orgasm all your life.
10) Financial issue
You and your partner need to have a proper discussion on finances. Not one of you can earn less and spend more. It’s not good for a long-term relationship.
However, you are still going to avoid the ‘red flags’ if you are blinded by love!
We all learn our lessons the hard way.
But, we just want you to take care of yourself, and know that we are here for you.